#94: The Drama Triangle: Is Self-Sabotage Stealing Your Success? How to Break Free and Take Action

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Are you really stuck… or just self-sabotaging without knowing it?

In this deeply honest solo episode, Melissa unpacks the sneaky, everyday ways we sabotage our financial goals, business growth, and personal breakthroughs—without even realizing it. Whether it's hoarding cash out of fear, procrastinating on hiring a coach, or letting imposter syndrome paralyze your progress, Melissa reveals how our subconscious fears quietly shape our decisions. She shares real stories from her clients and her own entrepreneurial journey, giving you the tools to recognize and break the patterns holding you back. If you’re tired of “almost” making progress and ready to take small, strategic steps toward real freedom—this one’s for you.

🔑 Key Takeaways

Self-sabotage often shows up as subtle avoidance, not dramatic self-destruction.
Imposter syndrome convinces us to play small—even when we’re qualified to take big steps.
Financial fear leads to hoarding, which reflects a scarcity mindset and blocks growth.
You’re not lazy—you’re often just unconsciously protecting yourself from failure.
Progress starts with micro-actions that build confidence, not giant leaps.

✅ Actionable Insights

Identify avoidance: Ask yourself, “What am I avoiding by not taking this next step?” and journal your honest answers.
Name the fear: Acknowledge what subconscious fear might be behind your inaction—protection is not laziness.
Take a micro-step: Choose one small, low-risk action aligned with your goal to start building momentum.
Invest intentionally: Don’t let fear drive your decisions—invest in alignment with your long-term values.
Share your commitment: Tell someone about your next step to create accountability and reduce the chances of stalling.

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